Sunday was full of events for us. We had a dog show to view, temple in Baoding to see, and dinner plans with a university English teacher named Lex. We unpacked our purchases from the market and looked through pictures as we slowly got motivated for the day. Speaking about our purchases from the market, we learned early on that you have to be careful about the soap that you buy here. Many people like to bleach their skin and be as pale as possible. So many soaps have bleach in them to help the process. Also, we think that many people wear the masks to help from the smog. The truth of that matter is that most of them wear masks to keep the sun off their face. (I find this really interesting because we think tanner is better in our culture) We were ready for the dog show and ready for lunch. Now, when I say dog show, you might be thinking dogs that are fine tuned with pretty little bows in their hair. Instead, this dog show consists of mammoths and bears. Yes! They were huge dogs and huge dogs with cute puppies. But to be kind, I will just say that if you are an animal lover, it would be hard to see. The conditions were not the best and the cages were too small. Good news though, the dogs had water on this hot day. The reason why this show takes place is so that people that are interested in owning a dog can come to see the selection and pick one out for purchase. (Also, I did not take pictures because this is a very busy street during this time and I did not want to offend any of the people selling the dogs. I tried to be respectfully of the situation.) After lunch, we headed to the temple in Baoding. On the way there we passed this wonderful road called Little Gate Road. This road was full of stands and street food. The stands were selling fruit, vegetables, and a variety of different foods. Needless to say, it is a very colorful street. Once we were at the temple, we started snapping pictures. The architecture was beautiful and this was the most traditional Chinese thing I have experienced. We walked around the area before we entered the temple. We got tons of stares, and a little girl ran after us to get a picture with her. We finally met a man that was very interested in us, especially Caitlin with her blond hair. As we took pictures with the man, it did not take long to notice his drunken stupor and his mild case of craziness. It was also obvious that he was a very harmless guy. So after we took pictures with him, he motioned us to follow him. He got us in the temple for free and taught us how to do the prayers. We then walked down the street behind the temple that was full of beautiful little shops and restaurants. We were unsure where we were going, but I figured as long as we stayed on this street, next to the temple, in public, we would be considerably safe. Caitlin was more hesitant about the situation. He offered to buy us a drink at a vendor, and I gladly accepted the bottle of water since the bike ride to the temple was longer than expected. Caitlin gave in and got one too. We walked about a block more and then the man walked into a photo shop. Noticing that it was a photo shop, I was interested to see what they are like in China. The man proceeded to talk to one of the workers about printing a picture that he had taken of us. I found this hilarious that he had to get the picture printed right then, but I went with it. The shop was filled with old box computers that they used to upload images and wedding photos printed nicely and framed appropriately. The most interesting thing was what they put on top of the images once printed. They embellished the photos with glitter, jewels, and sequins. For example, if the wedding dress in the photo had lace, the flat image was decorated with physical lace. After we left the photo shop, we walked back to the temple. The man insisted on walking us all the way back. I told Caitlin the strategy for losing him. He gave us a hug, in which the alcohol smell was still as potent as it was before. Caitlin was lucky enough to almost get a kiss from the guy as well. That blonde hair comes in handy sometimes. Haha (Did I mention this man was defiantly in his 60s) Since we were leaving the temple anyways, we would simple tell him we are leaving and ride away into the crowd. He did sort of watch us for an extremely long time after we rode away though. On our ride back we decided to go a little bit passed the school and view the rock exhibit. Baoding is known for taking large rocks and cutting them down smaller and making them more visually appealing. (Yeaaaa in China, you might ask why about something but you never get an answer, it just is what it is. There are many times that I have to ask myself, why did that just happen, but then I realize no one else is wondering why, it is just a cultural thing I suppose.) We pass a few dumps on the way to the rock exhibit. People live in these dumps and collect things and will turn things in like cardboard and plastic bottles in exchange for Yuan. I noticed a little boy playing right inside of the gate of one of the dumps. He was very curious about us and waved and smiled. We stopped to try and talk to him. He ran into, what we believe, is his house, which is four brick walls and a tin roof. He came back out quickly with a little girl. The girl waved and smiled as well. We tried to get them to come closer to give them a US penny and high fives. Giggling, they ran back inside the house, and out came their mother. She was not as impressed with us. She looked at us with deep, distressed eyes, as I guess any concerned mother would. We waved and said hello, but she was did not wave or say hello back. The kids were still very excited to see us and laughed about it all. Noticing the mother’s uneasiness about us, we decided to let them be. We got back on bikes and headed to the school. At that point, I realized so much about life and about people. How similar we are and how different we are at the same time. The worries of a mother or the carelessness of child, we are all human with similar thoughts and feelings, yet, they are struggling to put food on their table and we are concerned about the next IPhone coming out. I am not saying to not take pride in our success but I often wonder how different the world would be if we cared more about those giggling children than the brand of clothes we wear. We then got ready for a dinner with Lex. Lex is an English teacher at the University and his family is from Kentucky and he went to UK for college. (Random fact about Lex, his parents love Kentucky so much that they named their children after cities in Kentucky. So Lex is named after Lexington, Kentucky and one of his brothers names in Leo named after Louisville, Kentucky.) Lex is pretty fluent in Chinese and is a very interesting guy to talk to. We decided to eat Korean tonight. I love Korean food and was really excited to see the Chinese take on it. Caitlin is pickier with her food and was really unsure about it all but willing to try something new. Over dinner we discussed our different interests and what all was going on in each other’s lives. The food was delicious and we all ate way more than what we needed! Thoughts about those children stayed in my head the entire night, I was trying to find peace in it all, but I just couldn’t figure out the world in which we live and the motives that we have. | Also, today is Easter so I got another card from my parents and a piece of candy that I ate before I got to take a picture. It was a piece of home away from home. |